People cpme into yourlife for a reason
By author, Jeanne Hesprich
People come into your life for a reason,
a season or a lifetime.
生活中你遇到每個人其實都有一個原因，
短暫的陪伴你一個季節， 長久的，陪伴你的一生。
When you know which one it is,
you will know what to do for that person.
分清楚他（她）是哪一類人，
你就會知道該如何正確對待那個人。
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
某種原因，這個人來到你的生活，
他（她）是來滿足你所表達的需要的。
They have come to assist you through a difficulty,
to provide you with guidance and support,
To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
他們的到來，或者是幫你度過難關，
或者給你一些指導和支持；
精神上，情緒上或者僅僅體力上幫助你。
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
他們就像是上天派來幫助你的，
他們也確實是來幫助你的。
當你需要他們的時候，他們就在哪兒。
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part
or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something
to bring the relationship to an end.
隨後，在你沒有做錯任何事情的時候，
或者他們覺得是時候離開的時候，告訴或者不告訴你，
你們的關係就此結束。
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
有時候是因為他們的死去，有時候他們只是想要離開，
有時候他們只是想你自己能夠獨立。
What we must realize is that our need has been met,
our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered
and now it is time to move on.
我們必須明白的是，我們的需要已經滿足，
我們的願望已經達到，他們做了他們能夠做的。
你所祈求的已經有了答案，現在，是繼續往前走的時候了。
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
生活中你遇到的每個人其實都有一個原因，
你與他們一起分享，學習和成長。
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
他們或者帶給你心靈的安靜，或者讓你歡笑。
They may teach you something you have never done.
他們教你許多你不曾做過的事情。
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
他們帶給你許多你自己都不敢相信的快樂。
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
請相信，你所經歷的一切都是真的，
但是，也請記住，一切的發生是有原因的！
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to
have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use
in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
Thank you for being a part of my life,
whether you were a reason, a season or a lifetime.
生活中的朋友會帶給你許多的經驗，
為了有一個你自己的堅強的精神支柱，
你所要做的就是經歷生活，愛那個人，學會成長。
我們常說愛是盲目的，但是朋友會令我們受益終身。
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歲末年終，總不免一陣情緒波動，
筆拙，謹以此篇轉貼文章感謝一路相隨的親友。
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